Good morning thoughts…
This has been playing on my mind from the time I opened my eyes this morning.A total stranger who doesn’t know me from a bar of soap messaged me the other day saying that they felt “A woman’s beauty is tainted by their pictures being uploaded on social media”.It was so obvious that the reference was being made to me but nevertheless, I was polite enough to reply with respect and say oh well it’s just a difference in opinion from different people even though I wanted to scream HOW DARE YOU!.
Do you agree with this statement? 😏
I totally disagree.We All love to share our lives with friends and family.Some prefer not to put up pictures whilst others do,but does it really mean that every female who puts up pictures of herself – is advertising herself in a negative manner? I can’t seem to understand why people have this silly mentality.We live in a democratic country and yet we still fighting for freedom as women.We are still judged by what we do,where we go,what we wear, who we join.We are still discouraged over and over again or put down because we are “girls”.Our lives need to revolve around “What will people say?!”.
I have the right to share whatever I want to with who ever I want to and how ever I want to.We all do! Beauty is not tainted by being seen, known and popular!.Beauty is tainted by lies, cheating, back biting amongst many other filthy habits.You can be the most beautiful person in the world but if your heart and soul are not pure in the words you speak and the actions you take then not even a pretty face will hide that.People are too afraid to be themselves,everyone is fighting to be accepted.Each one wears a mask but when reality hits we all are heartbroken to see who they really are.
So be yourself, live your life according to you own rules because if you keep worrying about what people will say,your life will become normal,you will always be afraid to take a risk, dreams will remain dreams and people are still going to judge You! Upload that picture, wear that dress, take that jump.Because you’re worth it! There’s always going to be someone who doesn’t like you for who you are but don’t let that stop you.Heres to more selfies ladies!
The beauty you see in me is a reflection of you – Rumi